You can tell a lot by the way a person looks at you, the way he holds himself, the way he asks you questions and listens to your response, and the way he answers your questions.
Do not say something like “straight acting, masc.” Get over your hangups on being gay and perceptions of “gay-ness”—it’s 2014.
Know what you’re comfortable with sharing in your profile and what you want to get out of meeting someone.
Don’t flirt and bring up things upon which you won’t act.
That carefully written Ok Cupid profile with the hundreds of questions you've answered (honestly!
) won't mean anything unless it's backed up by the way you present yourself on the second date.