– The Player is often abnormally good in bed, and may even appear to know how to read your body, contributing to the illusion that you are meant to be together.If you encounter someone with these unusual skills, proceed with caution.Suddenly cancels his own plans and calls it spontaneity.
For example, he will be abusive to you and reframe the situation so he is the victim.
If you wonder this, trust your gut — this is likely the case.
Often has (or talks about having) expensive/fast cars, mentions houses, holidays, music videos, new jobs/business ideas that never seem to appear. Includes sweet-talking, teasing, winding or buttering you up.
If the words “headfuck” and “crazymaking” come to mind, you are probably dealing with a Narcissist Abuser.
He wants to drive you “crazy” to replace your understanding of reality with his, in which he is the centre, so that he may continue his abuse.
Special attention paid to how he dresses/looks/smells, etc. Likely to be the one to ramp up the intensity of the relationship first but will never be the one to bring up relationship-related topics. Works hard to convince you he is your dream come true.