Are you looking for an adult dating site that caters to adult encounters or casual sex, that isn't full of scammers or fake profiles?
If that's the case, I'll admit it's pretty hard to find.
We aim to be the largest and best emo dating site on the net offering free profiles for everyone as well as advanced features such as chat rooms, photo albums and i Tunes linked music sections. Emo Scene is different because its one of the only dedicated emo dating sites just for emo and alternative people.
Even sites that may once have been good can go bad.
After Lavalife, I only know of a few others that are worth mentioning, although I've yet to find one that's truly ideal.
My preferences would be Club Intimate, Fling, Adult Match Doctor, and Get It On, As for adult dating sites that I don't recommend, see my reviews for Shag Pal and Adult Friend Finder.
My first recommendation would be to try Lavalife's Intimate Encounters section; you sign up with them and then decide which of the three sections you want to be a part of (Dating, Relationships or Intimate Encounters).
You can use different handles in each section under the same account too, so no one will be any wiser if you want to advertise for one thing in one place without ruining your chances for something more should it come up.